FGM- A SOCIAL NORM

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FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION or FGM for short, is the wilful cutting or removal of some or all of the external female genitalia( It's basically a procedure where female genitals are deliberately cut, injured, changed or removed). It is recognised internationally as a violation of human rights, moreover this practice is rooted in ideas about purity, modesty and beauty, and controlling of women's sexuality. . According to #WHO , this practice has no health benefits, can cause severe bleeding, later cysts, infection, problems in urinating, complications in childbirth. It is mostly carried on young girls between infancy and age 15. . More than 200 million girls and women  alive today, have been cut in 30 countries in Africa, the Middle East and Asia. . A type of FGM, called INFIBULATION is performed by traditional circumcisers in Africa, to prevent sexual intercourse, it comprises of stitching of edges of vulva, leaving a small hole for menstruation or urination, and the stitches are meant to reopen only by the husband. . The cruel practice of FGM is not happening only far away in Africa, and not just being practised in tribal societies, it's also practised in India, here it is named as Khatna. . Imagine the situation of being cut in your genital areas, probably the worst terrific nightmare; it's not just a social norm but a taboo which requires a 'NO' and has to be stopped, but unfortunately no law in India bans the practice. . Comment down below your views and reactions and share as much as possible to aware our people on such social norms. #yourquote #yqbaba #yqdidi #yqquotes #yqtales #yqdada #yqhindi Read my thoughts on @YourQuoteApp #yourquote #quote #stories #qotd #quoteoftheday #wordporn #quotestagram #wordswag #wordsofwisdom #inspirationalquotes #writeaway #thoughts #poetry #instawriters #writersofinstagram #writersofig #writersofindia #igwriters #igwritersclub #socialnorm #awareness #writerscommunity #writersnetwork

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SAD (Social Anxiety Disorder)

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Chapter 2 Symptoms: ✓Lightheadedness ✓Abdominal Discomfort ✓Anxious behaviour ✓Numbness . Being a naive and timorous person, it was tough out there. There always had a frightened dream of settling in people's life, yet not blaming the society, because it is what it is, you can't blame others for your odds. . So he tried, and in the process, he was nice to everyone, became a great listener, did sweet things to others, welcomed everyone in his life, and felt good too, but still he got judged. . Yes, he was judged for being sweet, for being nice. Because why not? We, society are never too sweet and too sour to others (can be harsh though, but who cares), yet not blaming others. . It was devastating for him, but somehow he survived. He was in the hope of not losing himself against them. He talked (not about his feelings) but about others, it had always felt good to listen to him, he brought other's emotions out and made some good friends. . But what about him? His feelings? His life? And why had he suffered this anxiety? . If you think you can relate, and can tell some facts, then comment down below your views and reactions, or feel free to DM, I will narrate your words in a story. #yourquote #yqbaba #yqquotes #yqdidi #yqtales #yqdada #yqdiary #anxiety #anxietyawareness Read my thoughts on @YourQuoteApp #yourquote #quote #stories #qotd #quoteoftheday #wordporn #quotestagram #wordswag #wordsofwisdom #inspirationalquotes #writeaway #thoughts #poetry #instawriters #writersofinstagram #writersofig #writersofindia #igwriters #igwritersclub #anxietyrelief

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CEN ( Childhood Emotional Neglect)

Time Is But An Illusion

We treat time as an entity, but time is always irrelevant to our existence.
Time is basically an illusion created by the mind to aid in our sense of temporal presence in the vast ocean of space.
The existence of time is null and the reality is timeless. This sounds bizarre from the view of classical physics but from the view of spirituality, it fits perfect.
Although this nature of time is the deep truth and to be totally in harmony with this fact, you would need to wear a watch that always said ‘NOW’.
As there is always NOW, but it’s never changing NOW. And In effort to cope with the change, we have invented time

 

 

 

My inner soul

I’m still at the shore..

Where world has left me..

Or I left it…

Walking through my bare feet …

Touching this warm ground..

I’ve come here all alone.. 

People met me through my way..

People brought me what they had..

But what I chose..

Is to be all alone..

I don’t know.. what I’ve been searching for..

I don’t know .. where my life goes..

All I know is..

Walking on this barren land..

All alone..

Somehow preach me.. 

As my inner soul wants to meet me..

Adulting 101

This course includes the following terms

  • You’re going to lose your carefree nostalgic moment
  • You’re going to lose your unconditional love bonds
  • You’re going to forget your innocence
  • Life turns out to be enigmatic
  • And your childhood becomes a trance

And when you’re about to lose yourself completely,

It’s the time to celebrate and congrats you.

You’re an adult and you’re life is at advance

 

INSTAGRAM LIKES👍

Instagram is a social media platform where people share their photos and videos and also updates their daily life status. It has been a daily routine for every individual to constantly check on Instagram within every few hours and likes and share things that they had seen. 

But with the trend of being constantly updated, people liked to get so many likes if they had posted something, whether if it’s related to their views on politics, social norms, or their career related stuff like photography of wildlife, street photography, quotation, story writing, fashion, acting, etc, people want more and more likes for sharing their work, their information, their knowledge. 

Likes👍 or a game of attention 

To be honest, it’s a game of attention. People in the world sometimes doesn’t get a platform or an opportunity to put on their views or to show off their skills. Instagram is a perfect platform to all of this. Not only extroverts but introverts are putting their stuff to make everyone watch them and like them for who they are! 

Likes👍 became a game of jealousy 

This is one of the biggest problems of which people are facing, people with more likes are more popular and feel stronger or superior you can say! And demoralise others by raising their status. So this has become a trend of getting more and more likes to make other jealous and inferior. And people taking advantage of this fact are now making accounts where they offer to give you the same exact amount of likes in exchange of money. People actually are earning money by giving their pictures likes and comments. 

Instagram – a start to your career

People use Instagram to not only show off their skills, but actually to make their connections with different cities and with different countries. People use instagram to promote brands and also use it to show their work in different fields. And many of instagram influencers have got so much big in start of their career. It’s a quite benefiting to everyone.

 

Instagram likes👍 makes things trendy

It wouldn’t be wrong to say that the picture with more likes becomes trendy in few seconds or a video with more likes sets the trend and people begin to follow it blindly. Yes, it has become a quite unsatisfactory, that people are losing  their-selfs and becoming a copy of what is trending. You should be more yourself and must share what you are! If you’re not accepting your own identity and following other’s trend just for the sake of getting more likes by using their hashtags, you’re losing yourself. This is a bit harsh truth but it’s actually true. People get lost in this deep social media world and ended up in becoming other’s similar. And this is not just a problem with few but actually has become the problem of the whole world. I wish people would never affect their lives for not becoming a parallel fit for this world, people must show what they are! And build their confidence in feeling perfect of what they have! People need to learn that they are unique and INSTAGRAM LIKES is not the deciding factor of what is right and what is wrong! Listen to your own will and never react on no. of likes you have! or other’s have!.

 

Time

Time once again lies to me..

Time told me that a better bout is coming soon.

But I never heard that melody of the tempo..

Time promised me to give the best harmony of my life..

But when I tried to step my barefoot along with…

It stops..

Time committed to flow with me…

But again it defines its own wave….

Time once again broke me up and down by being a flat circle…..

Friends

  • People you laugh with.
  • People you care for.
  • People who are the reason behind your short attendance.
  • People you like going on trips.
  • People you want to spend the whole lazy day with.
  • People who are near and dear to your heart
  • People you insult the most.
  • People you hit every now and then.
  • People who make you weekends perfect.
  • People whom you have daily fights with.
  • People who hit you hard to make you smile when you’re sad.
  • People who kick you if you don’t listen to them.
  • People who are updated regarding who your new crush is.
  • People who have the right to grab your pocket money.
  • People you love the most.
  • People you open your book of secrets.
  • People you have midnight talks with.
  • People whom lap is to make you fall sleep.
  • People whom shoulder is to make you comfort.
  • People you share your everything with.
  • Misery – low spirit

    Sitting beside the trees.. and ticking through hands…

    Incubating to envelope the glipmse of you in eyes..

    Pleasure the lane.. by printing your steps on land..

    And your aura semblance my healing soul and rise…

    Laying on green plane..with clouds all black and..

    Blooming you inside and silently the brute in me sighs..

    Bursting with alluring rain… With red on brown sand….

    Killing you on your back and holding back for a new try…